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What is the biggest parenting problem today? Is it sex, drugs, alcohol, cell phones or the Internet? “Those are problems, but the biggest problem in modern parenting today is the lack of a physical or emotional boundary between the parent and the child, and especially mother and child.”

A physical boundary between people is essential to respect. To use a crass, but illustrative, example: Some men may like it that certain women establish no boundaries in male-female relationships, but those men have absolutely no respect for those women.

I’m a member of the last generation of children to grow up with mothers who clearly defined to us when we could and could not be in their “space.” Furthermore, their inviolate space expanded and contracted with their moods. One day, you could play in the house; the next day, your mom banished you to the outdoors until suppertime. Back in those days, it was clear to the child that “mother” was a part-time job. Furthermore, the mother, not the child, determined when she punched the clock.

From all that I hear, I’m also a member of the last generation of children to truly respect their mothers. We obeyed them. We gave them wide berth. We did not demand things of them. We did not take them for granted. And we never, ever yelled at them, called them names, or hit them. I am painfully aware that most of today’s moms are being disrespected in one or more of those ways by their kids, and on a regular basis. Furthermore, when this disrespect occurs, lots of moms ask themselves, “What did I do wrong?”

This is dangerous stuff, when children, especially male children, can disrespect the most important female in their lives and said female acts powerless and even deserving. If this isn’t corrected, it’s going to come back to haunt us all.

Before a mother can freely establish a physical boundary between herself and her child, however, she must establish an emotional boundary. This is the crux of the matter. For all too many of today’s moms, their children’s distress is their distress, their children’s problems are their problems, their children’s failures are their failures, their children’s successes are their successes, and so on. This is very destructive to both mother and child. It is a perfect model of co-dependency, and as such it results in a tremendous amount of enabling-of solving problems for children that they are capable of solving for themselves. And if they don’t solve all of their problems, so be it. Have you? Are you nonetheless okay?

Today’s challenges are what challenged me to research more about spells to melt away parenting problems in a home.

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